Your baby’s favourite playmate is you - so try to spend time playing with your baby every day. Did you know that playing actually requires a lot of your baby’s brain and muscle power? It helps develop their social, intellectual, language and problem solving skills - and is one of the main ways they learn about the world..
Newborns love it when you tickle their face or count their fingers and toes. Most babies love playing peek-a-boo over and over again. When they are really little, they love just wriggling around on the floor, it’s like baby exercise for them and great for their muscle development. Other great ways to play and interact with your baby include:
Tummy time is a great way to help build your baby’s upper body strength. You can start doing tummy time from birth by lying your baby on your chest (but only do this when you are wide awake and unlikely to fall asleep). Gradually increase the amount of time you do this day by day. Then when your baby is ready, try doing tummy time on the floor.
Tummy time helps strengthen the back, neck and shoulders, as well as giving them a different view of the world!
Don’t worry, this is very normal for lots of babies. If you’ve been trying to do tummy time on the floor, and your baby really isn’t that keen - you could try:
Try doing this every day, for a short amount of time, you’ll gradually build tummy time until your baby is used to it.
There may be some local parent and baby groups near you - sometimes they take place in the library, school or children’s centre. There may be a small charge - but usually this is just a donation towards refreshments. These playgroups are great for meeting other parents, and giving your baby the chance to play with some new and exciting toys in a safe environment. Sometimes they have special sensory play areas - great for stimulating your baby’s senses (sight, sound, touch, smell, taste). Even though it looks like your baby is just having fun, all of these activities help hugely with language development, cognitive growth, fine and gross motor skills, problem solving skills and social development.
Babies love the feeling of being in the water, as well as gentle play or splashing in the pool. Just like adults, they use different muscles in the water so it’s good for their development too. Most swimming pools have separate areas or times for parents with babies or toddlers - and some may offer swimming classes.
Your baby will probably start crawling (although not all babies crawl - some shuffle around on their bottoms) at around 7-10 months. These are exciting times for you and your baby - plus it gives them a bit of independence, and a chance to explore their surroundings. Can you create a space in your house where your baby can explore safely? If you are worried that your baby isn’t showing any signs of moving by 12 months, ask your health visitor for advice.