Menopause: five self-help tips

The menopause can make you feel as if you're not in control of your own body, but there are ways to ease the symptoms.

Hot flushes and night sweats

These are the most common symptoms of the menopause. They're caused by a malfunction in the body’s normal methods of temperature control. They can occur before the periods have stopped and are common in the first year after the last period.

To ease hot flushes and night sweats:

  • Do regular exercise.
  • Wear lighter clothing.
  • Keep your bedroom cool at night.
  • Try to reduce your stress levels.
  • Avoid potential triggers, such as spicy food, caffeine, smoking and alcohol.

Psychological symptoms

Psychological symptoms can include feeling down, anxiety, irritability, mood swings, tiredness and lack of energy. However, this time in a woman’s life can also be stressful due to parents' ageing and loss of independence, death of parents or relatives, divorce or ‘empty nest syndrome’ when children leave home. Therefore, experts cannot be sure that these psychological symptoms are a direct result of the menopause.

The following tactics can help improve your mood:

  • getting plenty of rest
  • regular exercise
  • relaxation exercises such as yoga

Sleep disturbance

Restful sleep will help you cope with other menopausal symptoms. However, night sweats and psychological issues can disturb some women's sleep. Improve your sleep by:

  • avoiding exercise within two hours of bedtime
  • going to bed at the same time every night

Get some exercise

There's evidence that women who are more active tend to suffer less from the symptoms of the menopause. Exercise is important not only for the relief of short-term symptoms but also to protect your body from heart disease and osteoporosis.

Exercise will help keep your bones and the muscles that support them strong. It will also increase your flexibility and mobility, which will in turn improve your balance.

The benefits of exercise in preventing bone loss and fractures are well known. It is thought that the best kind of activities are aerobic, sustained and regular. Brisk walking about three times a week is a cheap, easy and great way to start exercising.

Walking increases the strength of the spine and hips, both of which are vulnerable to breakages if you develop osteoporosis. Watch the 10,000 steps challenge video to get started.

Stop smoking

Women who smoke have an earlier menopause than non-smokers, have worse flushes and often don't respond as well to tablet forms of HRT. It’s never too late to stop smoking. Find out how the NHS can help you stop smoking.

Last reviewed: 18/09/2010

Next review due: 18/09/2012

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Denny0612 said on 10 November 2011

My symptoms are occasional hot flushes but more often than not just body temperature fluctuations. One minute I feel hot all over me - as if it's middle of July - and need to walk around the house in shorts and T shirt (in October!!) and the next minute I'm donning a sweater and snuggling under a blanket - only to be pouring with sweat a few minutes after that and flinging everything off again. This isn't hot flushes, which come on very suddenly and affect your upper body - around the face, neck and chest. That's definitely something else entirely. At least my heating hasn't gone on yet - so I'll save a packet on the bills. I prefer it to be cold indoors and wear a jumper if I get cold so that I can cool off effectively and quickly if I feel hot again.

I've found that intensive aerobic exercise has helped keep my body temperature enormously (I haven't had flushes or temperature fluctuations since starting my Jane Fonda 80s fitness workout).

I also have difficulty concentrating on trivial things - like television programmes. Keep having to rewind to follow what is going on because my mind has wandered. I'm OK on serious stuff though.

I get tired too and now I'm getting acid heart burn and keep burping as well and feel windy, which isn't helping me want to exercise. I feel bloated too.

My sex drive has increased if anything, after years of it waning and it was hardly worth the bother having sex. Now orgasms are more intensive - nearly as they were before I started peri-M. So that's great.

Body weight is an issue. I exercise and cycle everywhere but my waist isn't shrinking - no matter how much exercise I do. Thankfully I'm tall so I can take more weight without looking more than medium build. But I hate not being able to lose weight as I used to. Having Hypothyroidism isn't helping either because pill thyroxine isn't as effective as body produced thyroid hormone for regulating your weight.

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luvbundle said on 30 August 2011

In 2003 I had a Thermal Ablation for fibroids which in itself was successful, since then I have experienced hot flushes right up until present day I am 61 now. I think I am past menopause and not on any HRT but have recently been experiencing sore and painful breasts, I do take part in the breast screening programme.
Can anyone tell me why am I getting breast pain if I am well over the menopause?

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Mukesh Raghav said on 08 October 2009

Really very nice and commendable article., but the views in social aspects defers.As far as Medical Science is concerned. yes, at one day or other Hypothalmo-pitutary-ovarian axis will diminish working and other hormones will take their place , hence post menopausal symptoms.
Thanks

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