Causes of orgasm problems in women can be physical or psychological and include:
- not being stimulated sufficiently
- mood disorders, such as depression
- a general decline in physical health
- lack of knowledge or fear of sex
- a previous traumatic sexual experience
When can orgasm problems start?
Orgasm problems can be:
- primary: a woman has never had an orgasm
- secondary: she has had orgasms in the past but can’t have one now
Some women don’t need an orgasm to enjoy sex. However, for other women and their partners, being unable to have an orgasm can be a problem.
According to The Sexual Advice Association, sexual problems, including orgasm problems, affect around 50% of women and become more common as women get older.
Where to get help if you have orgasm problems
If you’re unable to have an orgasm, see your GP. They can check for any physical reasons that may be causing the problem.
If the cause is psychological, it may help to see a sex therapist. Your GP can refer you to a therapist or you can see one privately. Look for a therapist who is a member of the British Association for Sexual and Relationship Therapy.
For more information about orgasm and other sexual problems in women, see the Live Well section on female sexual problems.
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