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Your NHS guide to having a baby

Antenatal care: the basics

Antenatal care is the care you receive from healthcare professionals during your pregnancy. You'll be offered a series of appointments with a midwife, or sometimes with a doctor who specialises in pregnancy and birth (an obstetrician). 

They will check that you and your baby are well, give you useful information about being pregnant, and answer any questions you may have. You will also be offered antenatal classes, including breastfeeding workshops.

How to start your antenatal care

As soon as you know you're pregnant, get in touch with a GP or midwife (your GP surgery or a Children's Centre can put you in touch with a midwife) to organise your antenatal care. It's best to see them as early as possible. This is so that you can start your antenatal care and to make sure that you receive maternity health care that takes account of all your health needs and preferences. Let your midwife know if you have a disability that means you have special requirements for your antenatal appointments or for labour. If you don't speak English, let your midwife know and arrangements will be made for an interpreter.

Tell your midwife or doctor
It's important to tell your midwife or doctor if:

An important part of antenatal care is getting information that will help you to make informed choices about your pregnancy. Your midwife or doctor will give you information in writing or some other form that you can easily use and understand. They can provide you with information in an appropriate format if you:

  • have a physical, learning or sensory disability
  • do not speak English

Antenatal appointments

Your first visit with your midwife or GP is the appointment when you tell them that you're pregnant. They will give you information on keeping healthy, and ask whether you have had any previous health or pregnancy issues, such as complications in pregnancy. Your next appointment, sometimes called the booking appointment, will be longer and should happen when you are 8-12 weeks pregnant. Find out more about the first visit and booking appointment.

If you're expecting your first child, you'll have up to 10 appointments. If you've had a baby before, you'll have around seven appointments. Under certain circumstances, for example if you develop a medical condition, you may have more. Early in your pregnancy, your midwife or doctor will give you written information about how many appointments you're likely to have and when they'll happen. You should have a chance to discuss the schedule with them. If you can't keep an antenatal appointment, let the clinic or midwife know and make another appointment.

Your appointments can take place at your home, in a Children's Centre, in your GP surgery or in hospital. You may be asked to go to hospital for your scans. Your antenatal appointments should take place in a setting where you feel able to discuss sensitive problems that may affect you, such as domestic violence, sexual abuse, mental illness or drug use.

Later visits

From around 20-24 weeks, your antenatal appointments will usually become more frequent. However, if your pregnancy is uncomplicated and you are well, you may not be seen as often.

Later visits are usually quite short. Your midwife or doctor will:

  • check your urine, blood pressure and sometimes your weight
  • feel your abdomen to check the baby's position
  • measure your abdomen to check your baby's growth
  • listen to your baby's heartbeat if you want them to

You can also ask questions or talk about anything that's worrying you. Talking about your feelings is as important as all the antenatal tests and examinations. You should be given information about:

The NICE antenatal care guidelines give valuable information on the timing of visits during pregnancy and what will happen each time.

Checking your baby's development and wellbeing

At each antenatal appointment from 24 weeks, your midwife or doctor will check your baby's growth. To do this, they'll measure the distance from the top of your womb to your pubic bone. The measurement will be recorded in your notes.

In the last weeks of pregnancy, you may also be asked to keep track of your baby's movements. If your baby's movements become less frequent, slow down or stop, contact your midwife or doctor immediately. You'll be offered an ultrasound scan if they have any concerns about your baby's growth.

Your maternity notes

At the booking appointment, your midwife will put your details in a record book and add to them at each visit. These are your maternity notes, sometimes called hand-held notes. 

You should be asked to keep your maternity notes at home with you and to bring them along to all your antenatal appointments. Take your notes with you wherever you go. Then, if you need medical attention while you're away from home, you'll have the information with you.

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Last reviewed: 05/02/2011

Next review due: 05/02/2013

Comments are personal views. Any information they give has not been checked and may not be accurate.

Vickyhodges said on 12 January 2012

After finding out that i was pregnant last week I made an appointment with my new doctor surgery. I was suprised with the lack of information I was given but was told I am 7 weeks. I was given no information on what I should or shouldnt be doing and was told to make an appointment for a flu jab and with the midwife.

The receptionist said the midwife only comes in on a Thursday morning. I cant do this as I am also studying and Thursday mornings I cant do. She was unsure what to do and I got more information from a patient behind me about the midwife being in a different centre. Is this normal practice being left in the dark about when your next seen? I have been told to ring back in 1 weeks time as thats when she will next be in. I asked if they could ring her but they wont?! I am worried as this is not my first pregnancy and my blood type will put my baby in danger of contracting rehesis disease if left untreated. I want to get my medication for this straight away and I feel that this isnt being dealt with quick enough.

Am I able to see a midwife at my local hospital instead? Any feedback would be great, thanks :)

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naomig1990 said on 18 December 2011

hi to all, im about 10-11 weeks pregnant in my 3rd pegnancy, the first 2 ending in misacarrige. the 1st pregnancy i lost very early around 5 weeks with no symptoms and didnt know i was pregnant till it happend. my 2nd how ever was very different. i suffer from endometriosis so experience large amounts of emtreme pain frequently. from the moment i found out i seen my gp, then my midwife around 8 weeks for a 20 minute session which i gained no usefull info apart from advice to aviod certain foods. my 2nd appointment round 10 weeks i had blood work done and my dating scan was booked for 14th of febuary (valentines day) which my midwife though was very sweet. at this time i was experiencing some abdominal sharp stabbing pain and constant, very painfull back ache which resulted me to be bed bound on many occasions.

i brought my experiences of pain to my widwifes attention to which she said is very normal and i most likely had a uti ( water infection) with regards to the back ache. i proceeded to suffer but looked forward to my dating scan. at one point i took myself to my local a&e with the back pains to were i was place on anitbiotics immediately for a kidney infection. i brought my concern of the pain to attention again but was told all will be fine and that i am to early along in the pregancy to check to the baby. on the 14th (my scan date) i was very nervous. the scan was not good news at all. i had miscarridged without knowing.
i had no bleeding at all just bad back ache and a few stomache twinges. i had to push out the remains of the miscarrige at hospital (which was a painfull awfull ordeal in itself)
i am now pregnant again :) and have been looked after very well so far by the hospital that supported me though my miscarrige, as my last midwifes missed alot of my symptoms. ive had 2 lots of bloods done and 3 scans to which they let me keep 2 photo's. i do have a slight UTI. to which i am doin weekly tests to keep an eye on it.

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KMay said on 08 November 2011

Hi, I'm 5 weeks pregnant and have just got back from seeing my GP. Feeling very miserable now - this is my first time being pregnant and i'm feeling quite anxious - was hoping I would be told bit more information - other than 'don't eat raw meat or raw cheese' and 'don't worry the worst that can happen is you have a miscarriage'.

I know I'm being bit silly but I was just hopeful that it would put my mind at ease as to what kind of pains are normal!

All we did is fill in a form for the hospital to contact me for a 12 week scan. I've seen lots of people on here and other sites taking about seeing a midwife/early scans. What is normal? 7 weeks feels so long to wait at the moment!!!

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kelly1919 said on 05 November 2011

i went to my family planing clinic 4 a test that came back pos was told to go to my doctors when i went they just give me folic acid didnt ask me anything about my last period so dont know how far i am has i never took notice when my last period was and dont know what to do now i also suffer from marfans syndrome that i take heart tablets for all mt doctor said was go back after finishing my folic acid that a nother 7 weeks away can anyone give me any more advice please

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User229646 said on 31 October 2011

Hi, I found out on Saturday I am pregnant with my first baby, I have been to my doctors today and have an appointment with midwife next week. I am quite scared as I don't no what to do next. I don't no how far along I am or what the next step is to take, when I go to the midwife will they tell me about any benefits I can get to help with my new baby or do I have to do that all on my own. I would be very great full if anyone can help me with any advice at all on what I am ment to do now.

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mariagalatsi said on 10 October 2011

Ladies, the best person to speak to about your pregnancy is the midwife - even though it might appear impersonal done over the phone as mentioned previously, this is the oerson with the most information about your pregnancy. And also lets not forget - a pregnancy is not an illness it is natural and does not necessarily need a GP visit. Additionally, unfortunately, having seen a doctor or nurse or midwife does not affect the likelyhood or natural progress of a misscarriage...

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Rubarb365 said on 28 September 2011

Charmed. You can go for private scans they are between 50 - 200 (dating scans are usually bottom end of the scale where combined scans and bloods are usually more expensive). I just had my 12 week scan +bloods privately in london for £180, they produced a full report for me and had the results within 2 hours. It would probably be worthwhile if your concerned about the age of your baby to research whats avaliable in your area, it will also help when you see the midwife to have all the dates (Expected delivery date) to hand. I also found the consultant i saw really took his time to go over the baby and show me little hands and feet and reassure me that baby was ok. Checked my cervix and placenta ect as i have had 3 miscarriages. The midwife will still allow you to carry on with NHS treatment even if you have been for a private scan so there is no need to worry about that :)

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BiH said on 21 September 2011

After fining out that I was pregnant by doing a test at home, I called my GP to book midwife appointment and was told that she would call me back, in the meantime I had to go and see my GP as I was having pains in lower abdomen, my GP confirmed my pregnancy of 6 weeks. On the way out from the surgery I asked receptionist when can I expect a call and she said Friday. Friday afternoon came, no call from mid wife, so I called and was told that she's very busy but her roster is changing so they don't know t new and I was told to call children centre to book myself an appointment there, so I did, but was told that I can't actually book my own first appointment that midwife needs to it, so Ieras on a call to surgery straight away. Receptions was so rude and just to get rid of me told me to wait for a call from midwife. On following Thursday I called again and threatened to put an official complaint in and was offered an appointment straight away for tomorrow 22/09. When I asked how long it's going to be my appointment I was told 20 mins, but I read on several websites that first appointment should be an hour long. I have many questions to ask and I don't think 20 minutes is going to be enough time. This is my first pregnancy I'm 8 weeks and already feeling anxious about care that I'm to receive.

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1charmed said on 26 August 2011

I just found out am pregnant. I have a son who is 6 and when he was due I met midwife straight away and they were great big problem was my after-care in the hospital it was a joke, put me off having anymore kids.
However, now the midwifes are not based in the surgery but elsewhere and cover a whole region. I called my GP surgery to that ive tried calling they said i leave a message and a midwife will call me back sometime could be a FEW weeks!! I couldnt believe it, I dont know how far i am. I havent had the pregnancy confirmed. Is this normal now to be left so long. I suffered a miscarriage before my first son, If am left so long before seeing anyway how does that help!!! Does anyone have similar experences? Do you really wait a few weeks now?

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Elhawk29 said on 02 August 2011

Just wanted to praise the NHS in my area. I am 17 weeks, have seen my midwife twice and had my first scan, my second scan is next week. So far everyone I have dealt with in relation to my pregnancy has been great! My midwife especially has answered my questions, provided information and let me listen to my baby's heart. Sorry that other folks are not receiving good care, perhaps try you community midwife if you're having no luck, or you do have the right to change to a neighbouring PCT if you are dissatisfied with your care, good luck all!

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Rinny said on 28 July 2011


Hello Everyone, i am still quite surprised at the comments i have read and keep reading on this page. I am 12weeks pregnant and from the moment i discovered it, i came unto this website and became a bit apprehensive at the comments. I am glad that the 1st GP i saw was so excited about my pregnancy and it eased all my anxiety, the second one wasn't so i have stuck with my Dr. H as i prefer to call her.
Is it not possible to speak with another GP if you don't feel comfortable? Its my 1st as well so i know all the questions i had! I wish everyone had my kind of GP! Even my hubby was pleased when he met her!
@ Amuz, everyone said the pain in lower abdomen is normal! Did not feel so to me and i almost had a scare this past week as it intensified but just came back from GP and she 's reassured me all is well! If it gets too bad, please see your GP.
Got my 1st scan tomorrrow so i am looking forward to that..
All the best ladies in the weeks ahead.xxx

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Amuz said on 12 July 2011

I've just found out i'm expecting my first baby. A complete surprise and unplanned but thrilled to bits! I had a gastric bypass in Dec 2009, which worked brilliantly. I know I need to watch out with vitamins and iron, B12 jabs etc but has anyone got advice post gastric bypass and being pregnant!
I've also got what I would call period pains all the time and have had for the past few weeks (im technically 5 wks pregnant) - I've read that others experience the same or similar - is this really normal? I feel like im about to 'come on' all the time!
Thanks x

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newmumdit said on 29 May 2011

I just found out that i'm pregnant so i phoned my GP to make an appointment. She told me a midwife will call me next week and do our first meeting over the phone. Is this normal? Not very happy about not being able to meet with a doctor and having to speak to some faceless midwife over the phone.

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wwc said on 26 May 2011

yaznkam, I had exactly the same experience last week. I have been anxious with my first baby and thought the GP is going to tell me all I needed to know or more! But unfortunately, the GP looked and sounded disinterested. When I asked her what food I should avoid, she just said to check the internet, my husband had to ask her to recommend a website before she said the nhs website. She simply wrote me a folic acid prescription and made the 10-week scan appointment and I left. It was a complete anti-climax and not a very nice experience! I am tempted to register with another GP to see if they will give me more advice but are they all the same?

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yaznkam said on 15 April 2011

Hi ladies,

I found out yesterday that I am pregnant, so as a first time mum, am extremely anxious as to what to expect and am looking for advice on anything and everything. You ladies have given me a fantastic insight so far, and can't wait to read more!
I was quite surprised that a lot of people had bad experiences with doctors and midwives, howev er, after having my first appointment with a doctor today, I have to say I agree! Despite having a lot of questions and being high risk ( I have Type 1 diabetes and am insulin dependent), I felt that he did not care one iota. Instead he cared more about where I work (I work for the NHS). I asked about painkillers, and is there anythiong I should be eating or doing while waiting for my referral to go through, and he just goes 'eating in relation to what?' as if he didn't know the reason why I went to see him! Instead what was meant to be a 20 minute appointment, was more like 2 with him giving me a prescription for iron and folic acid tablets (although he said I don't know why I'm giving this to you as it should have been taken before baby was conceived and not after). I was extremely dejected and left.
Now I am hoping the appointment with the obstetrician should go a little better (here's hoping!) and am actually quite lucky I work with an ex-midwife, who is very interested in my health.
Can't wait to see more comments, and just hope that the health care system gets better. Let's see...

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sezzie69 said on 16 March 2011

congratulations tracywalls im nearly 42 just found out im pregnant with number 5, very excited but nervous as i had a gastric bypass sept 2009 and have lost 11 stone but due to different vitamin deficiencies etc got to keep an eye on me. good luck to all.

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tracywalls said on 25 February 2011

I am 1 month of my 46 birthday and have just found out that i am 2 months pregnant - not planned - but very happy - as well as being quite scared due to my age. My partner and I both have children from our previous relationships and never planned for any more. As I am very health and fit - decided to continue with the pregnancy - so wish me luck that hopefully all will go well.

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mummyagain2011 said on 19 February 2011

Im 29 weeks pregnant with my 3rd baby, but my youngest is almost 10! So its like starting all over again.
I had various issues with my midwife, and I am not the type to complain, but I have been experiencing all kinds of problems, from pelvic pain to almost passing out and 4 day migraines and my midwife could care less!! As long as her forms are filled she gave the impression that she really couldn't be bothered! So I complained to the Head of community midwifery for my area. I cant say that her response was positive as she defended the midwifes lazy attitude. BUT I would urge anyone who is not happy with the care they are receiving from their midwife to find out who is in charge and tell them! If no one says anything directly to the unit they will never know what poor care we are receiving.
I have now been put under the care of the team at the hospital which is much more thorough if inconvenient to get to. I get the impression though that because I have had babies before they think I dont need looking after!

Wishing you all luck with your pregnancies and your antenatal care.

Tell somone who matters, we all deserve the best care during our pregnancy and sometimes thats just a little reassurance or sympathy.

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Susie said on 04 February 2011

Hi phelanbird,
Please do contact your health professionals again. As soon as you know you're pregnant, you should get in touch with a midwife or GP to organise your antenatal care. You should also tell them about your underactive thyroid and B12 deficiency. It's best to see them as early as possible.
Best wishes - and congratulations on your pregnancy!
Susie
NHS Choices

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LKR10 said on 01 February 2011

I'm really sorry to hear so many bad stories. I saw my GP today and she said any pregnant woman should book an appointment with their GP as soon as they find out they are pregnant.

I am 5 weeks pregnant and saw my GP this morning who was very helpful indeed. She checked my blood pressure and had a listen to my heart and lungs. She asked lots of health screening questions and then made a referral for me to be allocated to a midwife whom I should hear from in 2-3 weeks.

My GP also answered my questions and gave advice on food, folic acid etc. I hope the comments on this site don't put people off from visiting their GP during early pregnancy. I also hope the other women who did not have such good early experiences have better future antenatal care.

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jemma123 said on 25 January 2011

do you really need all these tests??
women have been giving birth since the dawn of time without all this fuss.i'm travelling around india and pregnant and glowing with health...i'm not running to a midwife every 5 mins.
we're all pregnant not ill

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phelanbird said on 25 January 2011

am i being completely niave in thinking that you should see your doctor as soon as you think you are pregnant just to confirm that you actually are??? i have done two home tests, both saying positive, but when i phoned my doctors this morning to get an appointment, the receptionist made out i was totally stupid for thinking i should make an appointment! I have a ton of questions that i want to ask the doctor as this is my first pregnancy and i also have underactive Thyroid disease and B12 difficiency both of which can affect the baby and surely should be monitered! Is this normal not to see your doctor straight away and get tested by them?

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MPearl2130 said on 24 January 2011

This is my first pregnancy, and I haven't had my first appointment yet. I know it explains what normally happens on that visit above, but can anyone tell me what really goes on? I know this sounds terrible and selfish, but I have a bad history with scales and would rather not get weighed. Is is necessary? Obviously, I will do anything to make sure the baby is healthy, but if its not necessary I'd rather avoid it. Also, do they take blood samples?

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emiliavr said on 14 September 2010

Very useful article and comments although not great to hear people haven't been getting the attention they deserve.

My question is whether when you go to the first appt at the doctor and give the urine sample so you can get confirmation you are definitely pregnant, do they tell you there and then whether you are? Or do you need to call a few days later?

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emiliavr said on 14 September 2010

Very useful article and comments although not great to hear people haven't been getting the attention they deserve.

My question is whether when you go to the first appt at the doctor and give the urine sample so you can get confirmation you are definitely pregnant, do they tell you there and then whether you are? Or do you need to call a few days later?

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JenTel said on 10 September 2010

MarieZ it doesn't say see a midwife straight away, it says book an appointment straight away (because of waiting times)
My booking appointment will be when I'm 9weeks 3days but I am not worried. there is so much information available these days that it is not a problem.
So many people complain they don't get an early scan but if you did you wouldn't see anything anyway!
Pregnancy is the most natural thing you can go through, it's not a illness, you don't need to see a doctor or midwife every 2 mins!!

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Helix said on 27 August 2010

mebe_e I saw my midwife at 5+3 and she praised me for getting in early. Of course we can't plan much yet, but the earlier you start, the better care you are likely to receive and in appropriate time. Girls, don't wait till 8 weeks, get in early as this way you can pick up any problem (touch wood) in time to get fixed. My blood tests results will come in few days and if there is anything wrong my treatment will start immediately. Why would I wait?

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cdbmmab said on 16 July 2010

I am 25 and this is my second pregnancy, although the first ended at 6 weeks.

As you would expect I was very nervous about this pregnancy and when I started having cramps a few days after a positive pregnancy test I contacted my GP straight away, who told me over the phone without even talking to me for any length of time that I was definitely having an ectopic pregnancy and told me to go straight to A&E which I did. On arrival at the Hospital I was sent to the Early Scanning unit where I was scanned and told they could not find anything and to come back in 2 days. 2 days later I came back and was scanned by a further 2 people and again they could not find anything in my womb and so they were convinced that I was having an ectopic pregnancy, they hooked me up to a drip and said they were getting me ready for keyhole surgery, I was terrified. Then the head of the Scanning Unit decided to see me because she said the rise in my pregnancy hormone levels was not consistent with an ectopic pregnancy, Now this lady started the Scan and straight away found a sac and also noticed that I had a tilted womb, something that the other 3 people had not picked up on, Had this lady not decided to see me and not picked up on this they would have sent me for surgery and I probably would have lost the baby that I am carrying now.

I am now 21 weeks and I have only seen my midwife once at 13 weeks and was told at that appointment that she did not want to see me again until 28 weeks, I honestly thought that considering this was my first baby and that I had a previous miscarriage I would see my midwife more often but unfortunately this is not the case.

No one has discussed birthing plans or breastfeeding with me, I have not heard my baby’s heart beat as the midwife would not try for one, even though I requested that she do so. My midwife just gave me a handful of leaflets and sent me on my way.

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Jennikins said on 10 July 2010

I've been reading through all the comments and it is sad that so many women are receiving poor levels of care and treatment.

I am 21 weeks pregnant with my first baby (a boy!) and have to say that the care I have received so far has been excellent. I had my booking appointment with my midwife at around 8 weeks, where we went through my hand-held notes, and she explained everything to me, from foods I shouldnt be eating to information on breastfeeding etc. I was also given the choice of 2 hospitals to give birth in.

Soon after this I had my first set of blood tests, the results of which showed I was very low in iron. The doctor prescribed me a course of tablets straightaway, and explained potential side effects. He was very helpful and friendly. I was also advised to have the swine flu vaccination at this point (which I did).

Both the dating and anomaly scans were carried out efficiently and I had sufficient notice for both; I was even asked which days of the week suited me best to come in for them! The hospital treatment centre was very organised, clean, and professional.

I will be having my 22-week check-up with the midwife this week; at each of my appointments everything has been explained to me very clearly.

Maybe the standards vary in different parts of the country, but certainly the levels of care I have received so far in Cambourne/Huntingdon have been excellent, and I very much hope this continues!

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charburgeen said on 07 July 2010

Im 38+3 with my first. I missed my 16weeks appointment as I knew nothing of it. Since then I see th midwife quite often but tbh shes useless, seems to have no time for me at all. I had to basically beg to be seen by a physio for pelvic pain and both my midiwfe and GP have refused me painkillers for it even though I could hardly walk and sleep. All I get told is im pregnant the only thing I can have is paracetomol (However I know this is rubbish, there is somthing abit stronger I can have)

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twinkle17 said on 11 February 2010

Hi Ladies,

We are TTC and what you've written looks quite worrying. I work in the medical field (although not in the NHS) and I would reccommend looking at the NICE guidelines. These guidelines are written so that health care is uniform across the country and your providers have a real responsibility to meet them. I would especially reccomend them to the young lady with the family history of diabetes, there is a whole set of NICE guidelines for diabetes in pregnancy.

There is a link to the guidelines at the side of this page. Hope that helps and good luck to all!

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A A said on 01 February 2010

I so agree with most of you ... IMy 16 week is just about to end and I havent seen any midwife yet .. just the dating scan .... and Im so worried what if something isnot right how'd I know .. and I dont have my Hand held notes given to me too yet .. my first appointment on card with midwife is in end of my 5th month ... I'm going to call my GP tomorrow and would ask for some antenatal care or would go and visit the consultant i met at booking appointment for details ... NHS may be good ... but noone tells you what procedure you should expect :(

when everyone got their hand-held notes?

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cynosureme said on 25 January 2010

Hi , I am 20 weeks pregnant, and I have a family history of diabetes. I come from a south asian background and I am quite concerned about gestational diabetes.

I want to get a Glucose tolerance test (GTT) done which apparently is done in 16-18 weeks if you have a family history of diabetes and then done again in 24-28th week.

But my midwife sends me off saying "we do it in 28th" week only!

http://www.nhs.uk/planners/pregnancycareplanner/pages/diabetes.aspx

Could someone please advise me what should I do? I am quite concerned and worried.

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pwyldbore said on 07 January 2010

I saw my GP a while ago and am now waiting for the booking / dating scan appointment to come through from the local hospital - any ideas roughly how long I should wait before I chase it up?
(My husband and I both have difficult work schedules so we need to give as much notice as possible ...)

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MrsSammyD said on 07 January 2010

After a positive pregnancy test I called by doctor who then returned my call asking if I wanted to take an abortion pill!!! I was horrified.

I am now 16 weeks and still not seen my midwife as she cancelled 3 times. I have now been seen by a hospital based midwife after I demanded to be seen and would not leave unless seen!

I have now had my first scan and soon to have the second. I cannot wait to see my baby again. I am not bothered about seeing anyone, just aslong as me and my baby are ok.

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elliejoe said on 27 December 2009

I've just made an appointment to see my GP after a positive test like it says here. I might just print off this page in case they try and fob me off. I'm really shocked at the lack of sympathy some health care professionals seem to have. I hope I do better.

This is my first pregnancy and I think all first time mums and other mums who request it should be given a bit more support.

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elliejoe said on 26 December 2009

This all sounds awful. I've just found I'm pregnant for the first time and I was hoping to find some reassuring help from my GP/Midwife. I've booked an appointment like it says on this site as I don't know what I need to do. I just hope I'm not made to feel stupid when I ask lots of questions!

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kitty_77 said on 02 December 2009

Hey girls

I too got given the round around, Im 10 weeks and it seems until you get past the first 12 weeks, no ones is interested.
I understand that scans are difficult to see in the first few weeks and things could go wrong etc.. But when you've got worries you need someone to take you seriously..
I got referred to the GRAB unit Gynea emergency in the hospital (you can do this through the NHS direct if you're very worried about syptoms or through your GP.
GRAB were FAB they listened to me, checked a few things out and generally put my mind at rest, the lady I saw, did say I should relax, if things go wrong its natures way of dealing with thing and there no a lot anyone can do at this stage, I just gotta keep my fingers cross. SHe still made me feel much better and not silly for asking for help. If you're worried girls, then get yourself off to the Gynea emergency unit, remember stress isn't good either.

Best wishes
Kitty

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A A said on 22 November 2009

I went to my GP , with a first pregnancy resulting in miscarriage at 10 weeks. And this being a second pregnancy, my GP was quite chill about everything. She didnt mention any foods I should eat and foods i should avoid, et cetra. Filled in some forms and thats it. My first appointment with GP =(

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funkeemunkee said on 06 November 2009

I have to say, I am also disappointed in the lack of antenatal midwifery care. This is my second pregnancy and the first was 16yrs ago, but I remember I seemed to be looked after quite regularly then.

I too have only seen my midwife twice (I am 27 weeks) and as midwives appear so rushed, I don't feel you actually have any time to have any concerns. This makes for a scary time if you ask me... :O/

I am grateful we have the NHS but I am worried about the lack of community / midwifery care that there seems to be nowadays... from my experience anyway!!

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BethanyT said on 16 October 2009

Im 24 weeks pregnant and have seen my midwife once and ive seen a midwife at the hospital. ive had 3 scans but hardly and antenatal care!! they dont tell u what ur supposed to do and i think this is awful especially wen its ur 1st pregnncy!!!

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User51516 said on 13 October 2009

Went to see the nurse at my G.P. I was asked to fill in some forms but given absolutely no information about early pregnancy (i.e. what I should be doing/eating/expecting) or what will happen next in the NHS process. I presume a midwife will contact me? To be honest the nurse seemed clueless. The only thing she kept talking about was a foecal (?) scan and gave me quite a frightening leaflet about that with no further discussion and i'm not convinced she knew what it was for. In fact I am not sure she knew much!

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MarieZ said on 20 August 2009

Doesn't say that though does it mebe_e? It says see a midwife straight away.

I have a similar problem torbaygirl - I can't get past the GPs receptionist who insists I have a pregnancy test done by the surgery before I can even book an appointment. Wouldn't mind but they didn't test the first sample I took in because the receptionist hadn't filled the form out right, so I've had to give another one - so have to wait another week until I can actually book in with the midwife - which will then be another couple of weeks before I actually see her.

I'm 7 weeks now - at this rate the baby will be born before I get my first scan!

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mebe_e said on 26 July 2009

You arnt supposed to book an appointment with the midwife until about 8 weeks anyhow though chik.

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torbaygirl said on 13 May 2009

After a positive home pregnancy test, I called my doctors' surgery to make an appointment with the Midwife. On 8 May 2009, I was informed that the first available appointment was on 1 June 2009. So much for getting to see someone as soon as possible and getting the wheels in motion!

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