Sleep paralysis 

Introduction 

Who is affected?

It is difficult to know exactly how many people are affected by sleep paralysis, but it is thought about 6% of the population will experience at least one episode during their lifetime.

Although sleep paralysis can affect people of all ages, it is more common in teenagers and young adults. Men and women are equally affected.

Sleep tips for teenagers

Follow these practical hints and tips if your teenager has sleep problems.

Sleep paralysis is a temporary inability to move or speak that happens when you are waking up or, less commonly, falling asleep.

Although you are awake, your body is briefly paralysed, after which you can move and speak as normal. The paralysis can last from a few seconds to several minutes.

Sleep paralysis does not cause you any harm, but being unable to move can be very frightening.

Some people have sleep paralysis once or twice in their life, while others experience it a few times a month or more regularly.

Read about the symptoms of sleep paralysis.

What causes sleep paralysis?

It is normal for your muscles to be paralysed at certain times when you are asleep. Sleep paralysis occurs when the mechanism that causes your muscles to relax during sleep temporarily persists after you have woken up.

Sleep paralysis can sometimes be a symptom of narcolepsy. This is a relatively rare sleep disorder that causes a person to fall asleep suddenly and unexpectedly, disrupting their normal sleep pattern.

Other things that increase your risk of sleep paralysis include:

  • sleep deprivation
  • irregular sleeping patterns
  • age – it is more common in teenagers and young adults

Read more about the causes of sleep paralysis.

Getting help

If you have sleep paralysis, your GP may be able to suggest ways you can improve your sleep.

If your symptoms are linked to another sleep-related condition, such as narcolepsy, your GP may be refer you to a sleep disorder specialist (see below).

Treating sleep paralysis

The symptoms of sleep paralysis can often be improved by altering your sleep habits and sleeping environment.

Sleep paralysis often affects people who are sleep deprived, so ensuring you get enough sleep may reduce the number of episodes you have. Most adults need 6-8 hours of sleep each night.

Going to bed at roughly the same time each night and getting up at the same time each morning may also help.

Read more about how to improve your sleep habits.

If your sleep paralysis is particularly severe, see your GP. They may refer you to a specialist, such as a neurologist.

A short course of antidepressant medication, such as clomipramine, may be prescribed to treat severe sleep paralysis.

Read more about treatment for sleep paralysis.

Last reviewed: 08/11/2012

Next review due: 08/11/2014

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LDavidson29 said on 13 May 2013

I've been experiencing this for about a year now. I find it totally terrifying. The most recent one I had was last night and I've woke up this morning scared and exhausted. It felt as though someone was watching me.. I felt a sinister presence in the room, I also felt what I think was a child grabbing me and it sounded like the child was crying, I tried desperately to speak or move but couldn't, the child didnt scare me, I felt as though I wanted to help it, but I was aware of this "presence" watching both of us. I've been to a spirit medium who was able to tell me without me saying anything that I had been experiencing outer body experiences. I've also experienced grabbing and being dragged out the bed.
Can anyone give any advice of overcoming this? I want it to stop as I find it totally terrifying.

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Ashcrane1991 said on 13 April 2013

Hello, after having an episode a few years ago my sleep paralysis came back a few nights ago, upon researching it i came across everyones comments on their experiences.
Mostly i can see alot of you still suffer with "visions" or terrifying sounds and feelings.

When i first had my paralysis i experienced a shadow or something small and black i couldn't describe or even see properly coming towards me, it shook me up and i could honestly say i thought i was going to die.

I told my dad about it and his friend was there at the time listening. He turned to me and said i had myself a "demon". now i am the last person you could try and convince with demons and ghosts and all that rubbish lol :) but the advice he gave me was next time you have something during your sleep paralysis try to attack or let the "demon" know you are not scared, try and grab it, hit it, get up and jump towards it. welcome it and try and show you really dont care that it is there. and trust me it works!

Its been 2 years since i had the paralysis but it has came back a few nights ago, 3 times in one night. Its horrible feeling like im going to slip into an endless sleep with my mid active or even that im going to die if i let myself fall asleep but i can assure you it is so much easier to deal with without a "demon" making the whole experience 10x more terrifying.

Give it a go, if it works then learn to deal with the paralysis in a terror free mind set.

Best of luck to all of you :) and if anyone gets a breakthrough with being able to wake yourself up please share x

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Eve Ruby said on 21 February 2013

I've suffered this since I was 18, I used to get it very frequently, I'm 39 now and still experience it very occasionally. My grandma passed away recently and I experienced it again which then led to an out of body experience, something I've not had before and I'm convinced this was linked to the stress of her passing. I've had the feeling of icy fingers running down my back and coldness, footsteps behind me and a loud buzzing noise in my ears but by far the worst was when I was asleep on my sofa and was facing my TV which was switched off, I woke at dawn in this paralysis state and could see in the TV which was acting like a mirror what I can only describe as an imp dress in black dancing around and behind me. I tried so many times to turn and look at him but I couldn't, my breathing was shallow and I could hear the blood going through my veins although I was quite calm until the imp stood behind and raised his hands in the air and holding what I can only describe as a dagger he dropped it down as if to stab me in the head, which at this point I must of gone straight back to sleep and woke as normal however long later. Although when this happens it is very distressing and leaves me with a very heady feeling for the rest of the day, I would like to say to everyone to try not to fight it, stay calm and relaxed if you can and natural sleep will return. I used to fret and worry I wouldn't wake again and be late for work and try my utmost to move, shout and scream but to no avail. I do hope this helps some if not all of you as I know how terrifying an ordeal it can be for you.

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bizzy64 said on 02 February 2013

I have got this recently it really creeps me out and I keep thinking something is in my room, now I just leave my light on, I'm only 14 and I've had nights where I've laid in bed scared of closing my eyes I've also had ringing in my ear :/

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sgt101 said on 18 January 2013

I'd also like to add to my last comment, I was in hospital recently, where I was in a situation where I had to be rigged up to an ECG for three days (uncomfortable).
I started to experience a sleep paralysis state, when a nurse walked into my room, which woke me up. She was concerned because my heart rate had gone really low down to about 38-40, which my usual is around 60 (unfortunately). I like others have stated, felt breathless and as if I was going to die. I was kind of glad it happened there, because It gave me a little more understanding of why, when it happens I feel breathless. Prior to the hospital I was also deprived of sleep.....

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sgt101 said on 18 January 2013

It's odd how a lot of people are experiencing negative outcomes, my guess is that the negativity and fear of being in this unusual state, create the feeling that the situation is provoked by something more sinister I.e a malevolent force (as Dazzadooby said on 15 September 2012).
My experience also consists of this. About 3 years ago, I woke up around 6 AM, and could not move, I tried to raise my arm, but it just limped back down, I tried to shout for help, but I could barely say anything. My eyelids felt very heavy, I was terrified, what on earth is happening? I looked towards the end of my bed and a black shadow seemed to come from under my quilt and leave beneath my door. I could barely even process what had just happened, as fighting to stay awake was incredibly hard, I just let the sleep take over. The next day, I almost forgot about the whole occurrence. I find that if you get it, try your best not to panic and let yourself fall asleep, if you can.. unless you are getting the next problem that I have recently started getting.
I am currently visiting a relative, I have never stayed here before and I have not stayed in a single bed in a long time, I am a big guy, so I do not suit single bed's and quilts. This has caused me to wake up numerous times in the night, as stated above I have been deprived of sleep. I am the sort of person who panics when cannot fall asleep, causing me to stay awake, but this I believe causes me to get sleep paralysis, when falling to sleep and randomly in the night. I have rarely had this problem, since the above, but the third night being here, I found myself experiencing it repeatedly. Luckily, I have found a way to wake myself up during it. I manage to jolt my body, which wakes me up, but I get this massive surge of adrenaline, which oddly allows my body to fall back asleep and my mind to stay awake, which is quite awful. My suggestions if anybody else is suffering from a reoccuring type, get up and change your state of mind 1st

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Dazzadooby said on 15 September 2012

I've only just realised what my condition was called whilst reading "The Magic Of Reality". This started with me around twenty years ago. As someone else has mentioned, I know in advance that it will happen. Again, it always happens in the room I'm actually in and there is a sense of something malevolent in the room with me. I can't see this thing, it's invisible, and the episodes generally involve me being dragged out of bed and thrown around the room. There is also a sense of intense pressure on my body, around the stomach and kidneys. Typically I try to fight back against it and eventually wake myself up. This can happen up to 8 times a night. This usually follows a period where I've been partying too hard and irregular sleep patterns, but not always. Still, it's good to be able to put a name to my symptoms and share experiences.

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SeanyDee said on 13 September 2012

I had similar to SazzyP, the growling in my ear and as if something was trying to pull my head into my pillow, I had my eyes wide open and couldn't move, I was panicking and trying to fight it in my mind and managed to shake my head and snap out of it, very scary stuff I have to say, the growling I've had twice so far and a couple worse than that and some a bit more mild but not being able to move is as scary enough...

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SazzyP said on 10 September 2012

I have had two experiences of this. Once was when I was lying still and I couldnt move and I heard a growling noise in my ear and I felt like I could feel the breathing next to me.

The worst was last night where my eyes were open I couldnt move and then I felt something grab my leg and try to pull me out of bed and that stopped but then my bed covers were being pulled off me. I suddenly woke up and was really scared. I couldnt even look at the end of my bed as I still felt like something was there so I just hid under my bed covers. I am still shakened up about it now and it felt so real especially as my eyes were open but the feeling of not moving or being able to react is terrifying.

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Emmaa91 said on 20 August 2012

This has happened to me since being a teenager. Sometimes they are not too bad. I will be falling a sleep and suddenly I cannot move, I try scream and nothing will happen. Once I went cold and felt rain all over me. Another time I could see and feel the warmth of a fire. I am writing now as I have just experiences the most frightening one yet. I couldn't move, scream or make any noice. I could see flashing blue lights and hear a chainsaw. Then my whole body began to vibrate. I tried to push myself off the bed to snap out of it. I didn't move but felt like I had rolled off and began falling for what seamed like ages! Iv just snapped out of it and I am quite shaken. This is becoming to regular. Sometimes 3 times in a month. I don't know what to do. X

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LL084 said on 02 August 2012

I feel for everyone on here! Feel for Lem!

I've had dreadful sleep paralysis, it has come and gone throughout my 20's. I have seen very frightening things, all what everyone on here is describing is what I have experienced. I've seen things that scare the hell out of me including... an old hag, gargoyle (which jumped on my bed and I felt it), a mangled hand, a nasty man and many other things which were so awful. Its never something heavenly:(

I suggest if your doctor or anyone else in a medical field can't help I recommend seeing a psychic healer. I know it might not be everyone's cup or tea or one may not agree with it but it helped someone I know.

A lot of people really don’t understand or experience what its like to have this happen to you but when it does happen it's truly, truly awful.

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WorstNightmare said on 28 June 2012

I feel like I have a fairly good understanding of this now.

I Suffer from this for around a week after a hectic weekend where I don't sleep a lot, it seems to mess up my head.

Everyday since the weekend when just nodding off I have been going straight into this sleep paralysis....... For my self I experience a major ringing in my ears, loud then quite in a sequence (like a high pitched siren), then I'm in the room exactly how I have fallen asleep, but with my eyes open unable to move but really trying to because the ringing is getting so intense and because its terrifying it seems really hard to breath.

The weird thing is I know this is going to happen to me and even when its happening, I sort of realize and try and do all I can to wake up. It happened around 8 times last night.

I have experienced it before where I am lying next to my girlfriend and there is a man beating her (Hallucination stage) I cant move but I am trying my hardest to be able to move but are just motionless, then suddenly you wake up sweating and breathless.

And once I was lying next to my girlfriend and I could not catch my breath.... I was facing her and trying to tap her to help me but she was sleeping and I just couldn't reach her..... then when it got to the point where I thought I was going to die I woke up...... never been so scared in my life.

Its crazy how life like it is. After reading this explanation and other comments I feel better and feel I understand it a lot more.

Hopefully it goes tonight!!

Anyone had it that bad??

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Kiwi88 said on 04 March 2012

I've had this too. Its really getting me down. I first started to have it 2 years ago and at first I just couldnt move my body, I didnt have any hallucinations but had shallow breathing. I thought it was perhaps related to alcohol. Then it seemed to stop.

Then when I was 22 I became a practicing Christian. I was staying at my aunty and uncles and and as I was liying there in bed I felt my quilt being tugged. I pulled my covers really tight and ther next thing I got yanked out of bed. I stood up and rebuked it in the name of Jesus and then woke up whispering 'Jesus'. I realised it had all been a dream/hallucination but everything in the room had looked the same. I just knew that I had experienced a spiritual attack.

A few months later it happened to me again where something evil/force was squeezing my chest so tight i couldnt breathe. In the dream I was stood in the kitchen and was grabbing for scissors to try and cut my top open so I could breathe. something was also physically lifting me up in the air so that I couldnt run away. I Woke up and couldnt move or breathe properly but could see everything around me, and eventually came round.

A few days later I'd been out for a few drinks with a friend on the friday and on saturday afternoon took a nap. I experienced it again but this time was fighting to wake up. I could hear what sounded like an internet modem screeching in my head and as I used all my effort to lift my head off the pillow realised my face was still in a sleeping position (as if it was still pressed against the pillow) I completely panicked and was too scared to go back into the dream and too scared to stay in the dream state I was in. Eventually I came out of it, cant remember how but with all my energy.

I decided to cut alcohol out my life full stop but today, taking a nap I helf woke up and realised my breathing was funny and suddenly heard a noise again and this time called on Jesus to wake me up before it got nasty.

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Lem said on 23 August 2011

I get this too and have done intermittently since I was a teenager. I wake up and know that there is something evil in the room. I can't move or speak and I try to pray but the words won't come out. Last night, the evil thing touched me on the shoulder and I had a sensation like electricity through my whole body. It is so horrible and so real. The previous time, I woke up and sat up in bed and the devil was there and he said that all I had to do was ask and he'd make it so I could have a baby (we've been trying without success for years). I get really frightened and tried to call my husband and in the end the words that came out were 'I'm dead. I'm already dead' which did wake him up but frightened him half to death! I just wish I knew how to make it stop.

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Pritzb87 said on 03 July 2011

I totally agree with what Magger says. I suffer similar episodes of sleep paralysis throughout my life. I am 23 years old and I have been suffering from sleep paralysis from a very young age. My episodes usually occur when my body is totally relaxed and I am ready to sleep, my eyes cannot stay open and then I get a tingly sensation all over my body followed by the loud ringing in my ear or laughing, at times a baby crying. The worst episode I ever faced was a few years ago where I entered a state of sleep paralysis and my eyes were open, I could not move and I saw four tall figures of death/ grim reaper in my room with black robes and heads down, and with them was a a white disfigured girl who was all wrinkled and totally white from top to bottom, she kind of looked like a cross between Samara from the ring and also the possessed girl from the film The Exorcist. Anyways, she came close to me and I felt her grab my arm, I could not move and in a sinister voice she re-assured me that "she could do it better!" and then I woke up and I myself was grabbing my arm! People think that I am crazy, have issues or am being haunted by an evil entity, it feels so real and it is the scariest experience ever! Other scary episodes include: being dragged across my own room, baby's crying, people laughing at me etc. However, at times I may have episodes which I actually enjoy or rather feel some sort of pleasure or a sense of elation, my body feels like it is rising and I somehow reach for the ceiling (sky) and I feel calm and happy as I have a smile on my face, I do not understand any of this but this is what I have been through. Hope people can relate to this....

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Magger said on 22 April 2011

I'd rather kept quiet about my episodes of sleep paralysis, it was just so strange. When I searched the web most articles told me that it was generally a condition of the young, well no, I was in my 50s.

These episodes usually start with a kind of 'ringing' in my right ear (I'm talking with hindsight and a little more knowledge of the condition), then a feeling of wakening, and my surroundings are familiar, but different. When I first experienced this my feeling was that I was totally awake, and in my bed, but something else was in the room, something evil. I tried to wake up, but the shape slithered along the bedroom wall, nearing me. I could not move or speak, no matter how much I tried, and it wasn't until the figure crept up and over me that I managed (or became) awake.
I have a little more knowledge now, and, when the ear ringng starts I turn on the bedside light and read for a while, and I leave the light on!

I've had a few of these experiences over the last few years, and can sometimes fight against the paralysis, but it's very spooky when you experience it for the first time.

The mind is a very complex organ, you are not going mad, just experiencing something others don't!

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