Phobias 

Introduction 

Phobias

Fear or phobia? Find out the difference between the two and the treatment options that can help you overcome them.

Getting help for phobias

Whatever you have a phobia of, you don't have to live with your fear. Find out what you can do to overcome it

A phobia is more than a simple fear. It develops when a person begins to organise their life around avoiding the thing they are afraid of, whether it’s an animal, object, place or situation.

A phobia is a type of anxiety disorder. If you have a phobia, you will have an overwhelming need to avoid all contact with the source of your anxiety. Coming into contact with the cause of your phobia or even the thought of this can make you anxious and may cause you to panic.

If the cause of your phobia is an object or animal that you do not come into contact with regularly, such as a snake, it is unlikely to affect your day-to-day life. However, if you have a more complex phobia, such as agoraphobia (see below), you may find it very difficult to lead a normal life. Read more about the symptoms of phobias.

Types of phobia

There are many different phobias, which can be divided into two main categories:

  • simple phobias
  • complex phobias

Although most people are aware of a phobia, it may help to identify some complex phobias by speaking to a GP and answering questions about your anxiety. Read more about how phobias are diagnosed.

Simple phobias

Simple phobias are fears about specific objects, animals, situations or activities. Some common examples include:

  • dogs
  • spiders
  • snakes
  • enclosed spaces
  • doctors or dentists
  • flying

Phobias affect different people in different ways. Some people only react with mild anxiety when confronted with the object of their fear, while others experience severe anxiety or have a severe panic attack.

Complex phobias

Complex phobias tend to be more disabling than simple phobias because they are often associated with a deep-rooted fear or anxiety about a particular circumstance or situation. Two common examples of complex phobias are agoraphobia and social phobia.

Agoraphobia is a fear of being in situations where escape might be difficult, or help wouldn't be available if things go wrong.

A person with agoraphobia may be scared of:

  • travelling on public transport
  • visiting a shopping centre
  • and in the most severe cases – leaving home

Social phobia is a fear of social situations, such as weddings, or performing in social situations, such as public speaking. People with a social phobia have a fear of embarrassing themselves or of being humiliated in public.

How common are phobias?

Phobias are the most common type of anxiety disorder. In the UK, an estimated 10 million people have phobias. Phobias can affect anyone, regardless of age, sex and social background.

Simple phobias, such as a fear of going to the dentist, usually start during early childhood, often between the ages of four and eight. Simple phobias often disappear on their own as the child gets older and usually do not cause problems in adulthood.

Complex phobias usually start later in life. Social phobias often begin during puberty and agoraphobia in the late teens to early twenties. Sometimes, complex phobias continue for many years. Read more about the causes of phobias.

How are phobias treated?

Almost all phobias can be successfully treated and cured. Treating simple phobias involves gradually becoming exposed to the animal, object, place or situation that causes fear. This is known as desensitisation or self-exposure therapy. You could try these methods with the help of a professional or by using self-help techniques.

Treating complex phobias often takes longer and involves talking therapies, such as counsellingpsychotherapy and cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT). Read more about how phobias are treated.

Medication is not usually used to treat phobias. However, it is sometimes prescribed to help people cope with the effects of anxiety. The medication used may include: 




Last reviewed: 14/11/2011

Next review due: 14/11/2013

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jackieh47 said on 02 May 2013

I started with a phobia approx 5 years ago, prior to this i used to get public transport about 3 times a week, go out with friends, but then a situation happened that involved my daughter and i took the "if i dont see, it wont hurt" approach, big mistake coz i stayed home and then the days led to weeks, the weeks led to months and then i never dared go out my house, when shopping day arrived i made excuses althow i knew i was doin it i couldnt help myself, i then became carer for my grandson in 2007 and that was a very difficult hurdle becoz i knew if i didnt take him to the clinic ect i would be neglecting his needs, it took me days to mentally prepare for any outing i had to do with him, iwould give anything to be able to go out properly again, the furthest i do go now is to school and back to ensure my grandson keeps his attendance, i am petrefied of public transport, the thort of catching a bus has me in a state of panic, tears and even hyperventaling, people who have not experienced agraphobia, anxiety ect dont understand, its completely ruined my life, i no longer have many friends, i haven't been out for the 5 years my safe zone is my bedroom, how can i get back to normality, its made me depressed and i feel worthless, life threw a window is awful....:(

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RIPLEY4 said on 14 January 2013

I have a phobia called 'tocophobia'. I have primary tocophobia and I am 15 years old. Currently I am a virgin but I have an implanon (form of contreception) but even so I think I may be pregnant. It is possible to become pregnant without having sex. I dont know what to do, this worry is taking over my life. Someone help me.

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User631550 said on 08 January 2012

I feel so sad reading the above. As a hypnotherapist I regularly treat people who suffer from phobias and often one session is enough to eliminate the phobia completely. This is 'simple' phobias. Social phobias do take longer but still respond well.

So if you suffer from a phobia do find a well qualified hypnotherapist near you. As Paul McKenna says 'No one should have to suffer with a phobia.'

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User611082 said on 30 October 2011

It saddens me to hear of people who have lived with phobias for many years. That used to be me. I had a fear of both heights, and deep water, both for over 25 years.

Once they were cured it changed my life and career choices dramatically. It also increased my confidence in other areas of my life, and I seem like a different person looking back on it now.

It irritates me though when I see people making categoric assertions that there is only one way to do things. In my case the cure took about 15 minutes and has thus far proved permanent (around 8-9 years ago).

Many therapies work, and probably for different reasons, and I certainly don't assert that what worked for me will do so for everyone. I was so impressed however, that I have started helping others.

I suggest you consider seeking out NLP practitioners who understand the Fast Phobia Cure technique, or Time Line Therapy, or some of the percussive techniques, as one of these may work for you as well. Simple phobias appear to have a common trigger, generally in childhood, and all we have to do is to relearn the experience in a way that is helpful to our brain, and not harmful to us. It sounds simple, and for many people it is exactly that.

I'm in danger of getting a comment removed - but I think it should be available on the NHS!

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EmmaHope88 said on 27 June 2011

I've had a phobia of injections since the age of 4 and desperately need help. I've tried talking to my GP but I was brushed off with the comment "You'll grow out of it." I am now 23 and the phobia is worse than ever and I am desperate to be rid of it but I cannot afford to pay for treatment. Does anyone know what I can do? I'm behind on immunisations, have possible Lupus but cannot do the blood tests and live in constant fear of somehow having to have an injection. Please help!

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PChris said on 06 December 2010

I have a phobia of slipping - on anything that is or looks slippery so at the moment I am really finding the ice and snow difficult. Has anyone got any suggestions please? I can't seem to find any help in the Chichester area and do not want to undergo hypnotherapy.

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petsan said on 25 April 2010

I have suffered from a vomiting phobia since I was about 8 I am now 65 I have had one child and I have 2 grandsons whom I have looked after but was on edge all the time in case they were ill. This phobia has ruined my life and the awful part is that I have let it I did try treatment but it didn't do any good. Along with this phobia I have also suffered from being frightened of going to the toilet I have taken Lomotil for over 25 years I have to take them before I leave home because I cannot even think about using public toilets. My husband and I go away in our caravan and I take Lomotil all the time I am away I know it's not foing me any good but I cannot tell the doctor in case he takes the tabs off me. Anyone out there with any advice?
Petsan

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Joshua_David said on 13 May 2009

Phobias are usually brought about by painful experiences in the past that have traumatized you so much that after you experienced it, you would try as hard as you can to avoid such situations. But when you do get to encounter these that remind you of your phobia, you would surely panic where you experienced heightened sensations like upset stomach and tremors.

The only way way for you to be able to truly overcome your phobias is to change your self-image. Assess how you reacted to your past experiences and your beliefs that other people inculcated in you. If you reacted to them negatively, it's highly likely that you don't feel well enough about yourself and this prevents you to do what you really wanted to do.

If you are able to create an adequate, realistic self-image to replace that distorted one, then, you would be able to overcome depression. At the same time, you need to use your creative imagination to examine how you are going to live in the present and anticipate the future. Set up realistic goals for yourself through the power of your imagination. Always remember your past successes and how you felt during those times, especially when you are feeling down, so that you would have the courage, confidence, strength and determination to achieve whatever you want to achieve. Also, never dwell on your mistakes. Rather, learn from them and move on knowing that you are wiser and ready to go about your life in a better way, doing everything that you can in order to succeed.

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