MMR - Charlotte's story 

'I'm so relieved Harriet had the MMR jab and is protected' 

Charlotte Sanger’s daughter, Harriet, 2, had her MMR jab in 2008. Charlotte, 32, a writer and editor at NHS Choices, recalls what went through her head at the time

"Harriet had already had her routine 5-in-1 and meningitis C jabs when she was two months old. It was an automatic step for her to have these, which I didn’t question or worry about.

"But when she reached her first birthday and it was time for her to have the MMR jab, I had qualms. So did many of my friends with babies the same age.

"By this time, all the scare stories (which surfaced in the late 1990s) that the MMR jab could cause autism had been firmly dismissed and the logical side of me knew that the vaccine was safe and beneficial. But as a mum, I still had nagging doubts.

"I know my worries weren’t based on medical facts but I was very cautious about going ahead. The decision for Harriet to have the MMR jab ultimately lay on my shoulders and I felt under pressure to make the right choice.

"A friend had looked into having each of the measles, mumps and rubella vaccines as separate single injections, but she told me it was expensive, meant travelling to a private clinic in London and would be six injections rather than just two for the MMR course. That and the fact that I knew there was no evidence to show that single injections were any safer than the combined MMR jab ruled them out as an option.

"I did some research of my own into the pros and cons of vaccination, and from what I read, all the evidence showed that the MMR jab was safe and had no links with autism.

"I talked to a colleague who was a doctor and another friend, who’s a nurse. They were both reassuring about MMR and said the benefits far outweighed any potential side effects.

"What really made up my mind to take Harriet for her MMR was that I didn’t want to risk her catching mumps or measles. I knew both of these illnesses can kill a child.

"Once I’d made the decision to go ahead, I never looked back. I probably kept a closer eye on Harriet than usual for a day or two after the jab but she was absolutely fine and I forgot about it.

"With the recent surge in cases of measles, I’m so relieved Harriet had the MMR jab and is protected. I’ll definitely be taking her for her pre-school booster."


Last reviewed: 11/08/2011

Next review due: 11/08/2013

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cachux said on 11 May 2012

My daughter was 12 when I plucked up the courage to give her the MMR 8 months ago. I was not happy to have been forced into this decision. I really wanted to be able to get single vaccines but was not keen on using an unknown clinic and unlicensed vaccine. I would have liked them via the NHS at my Health Centre and would have gladly paid for them.
Anyway after 12 years of cutting out newspaper articles, watching TV programmes, researching on the internet etc., it's done and I'm relieved that a decision that has been hanging over our heads since she was born has been made and I can now, at long last, relax in the knowledge that she is unlikely to catch Measles.
I thought that she would catch Measles naturally and if she was then handicapped in some way you could say that it was 'God's will', but if the MMR caused anything then it would have been something that I had done directly and I would never have forgiven myself.
So she had the 2 doses needed 4 weeks apart. I was dreading it and was very anxious, but she was absolutely fine and I wished that I'd done it sooner !
She did get a stiff wrist 3 weeks after vaccination which is a side effect from the Rubella component and at 2 weeks she had Psoriasis, which can be triggered by infections. This she has had before anyway so I don't know whether that could be attributed to the MMR or not. From what I was expecting and what it will prevent, it was nothing.
I don't know whether leaving it until they are older helps. You have just got to hope that it is not your child that is going to be one of the unfortunate ones to be badly affected by this vaccine.

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