Genital herpes 

Introduction 

Genital herpes: Marian's story

Marian contracted herpes from her boyfriend. She talks about the symptoms, how it can be treated, and the issue of discussing herpes with your partner.

Genital herpes is caused by the herpes simplex virus (HSV) type 1 or type 2. It causes painful blisters to appear on the genitals and the surrounding areas. As genital herpes can be passed to others through intimate sexual contact, it is often referred to as a sexually transmitted infection (STI).

HSV can affect any mucous membrane (moist lining), for example those found in the mouth, eyes, anal or vaginal areas. When around the mouth, HSV can cause blister-like lesions called cold sores to develop.

Genital herpes is a chronic (long-term) condition, with most individuals having recurrences. The average rate of recurrence is four to five times in the first two years after being infected. However, over time, the frequency of attacks decreases and the condition becomes less severe with each subsequent occurrence.

The herpes simplex virus (HSV)

HSV is highly contagious and can be passed easily from one person to another by direct contact. Genital herpes is usually transmitted by having sex (vaginal, anal or oral) with an infected person. Even if someone with genital herpes does not have any symptoms, it is possible for them to pass the condition on to a sexual partner.

Once someone has been exposed to HSV, the virus remains dormant (inactive) most of the time. At least 8 out of 10 people who carry the virus are unaware that they have been infected because there are often few or no initial symptoms. However, certain triggers can activate the virus, causing an outbreak of genital herpes.

How common is genital herpes?

Genital herpes is a common condition, especially between people aged 20-24 years. In 2008 alone, nearly 29,000 people attended a sexual health clinic in the UK with a first clinical attack of genital herpes.

Outlook

Although there is no cure for genital herpes, the symptoms can usually be effectively controlled using antiviral medicines (see Genital herpes - treatment). The symptoms of genital herpes tend to become less frequent and less severe with each recurring episode of the condition.

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Genitals
Genitals are the sex or reproductive organs that are visible on the outside of the body. In females this is the vulva, labia and clitoris. In males this is the penis, scrotum and testicles.

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User641626 said on 04 February 2012

I caught genital herpes from a boyfriend who never had any symptoms. I have had it for 8 years now., and it has never affected my life. I have told boyfriends who I trusted about it and I have never had a bad reaction, it has never affected any of my relationships. People make such a fuss over what is really a minor skin irritation with no long term effects on health. The stigma attached to this virus by ignorant people is ridiculous. Most people have herpes in one form or another. I would advise people to get on with their lives and stop worrying about this condition.

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2012_Anonymous said on 06 December 2011

One of my ex-sexual partners told me that he has herpes, back in Jan 2011. I have also seen the red blisters on his penis, back in Jan 2011. I have been tested and got the all clear.

I'm no longer in contact with him, but the last time I spoke to him, Sep 2011, he's now trying to say that he doesn't have 'herpes'. He's saying he's clean and the red blisters, on the head of his penis were caused by poor hygine (lying in his dirt / filth for days on end, not getting washed and not washing properly). Apperently his doctor told him that. Can this be true or is it more likely to be a lie?

I don't believe that the red blisters were caused by poor hygine because wouldn't that have just casued a smell, a rash, spots (acne) and irretated skin? But I want to make sure though, incase i could be wrong.

The concern i have, is if he really does have herpes and the red blisters were not caused by poor hygine... Then he's telling people he's clean, when he isn't, which means he's willing to pass herpes onto people.

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lovesky said on 17 October 2011

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HerpesFish said on 17 October 2011

According to statistics of HerpesFish,com, 16 percent of Americans have HSV-2 infections. The vast majority — between 75 percent and 90 percent – don’t know they are infected because they don’t get, or don’t notice, herpes sores on their genitals. So, we should not judge a person by herpes because you may have it but do not know.

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HerpesFish said on 17 October 2011

According to statistics of HerpesFish,com, 16 percent of Americans have HSV-2 infections. The vast majority — between 75 percent and 90 percent – don’t know they are infected because they don’t get, or don’t notice, herpes sores on their genitals. So, we should not judge a person by herpes because you may have it but do not know.

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HerpesFish said on 17 October 2011

According to statistics of HerpesFish,com, 16 percent of Americans have HSV-2 infections. The vast majority — between 75 percent and 90 percent – don’t know they are infected because they don’t get, or don’t notice, herpes sores on their genitals. So, we should not judge a person by herpes because you may have it but do not know.

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HerpesFish said on 17 October 2011

According to statistics of HerpesFish,com, 16 percent of Americans have HSV-2 infections. The vast majority — between 75 percent and 90 percent – don’t know they are infected because they don’t get, or don’t notice, herpes sores on their genitals. So, we should not judge a person by herpes because you may have it but do not know.

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Jamie_Rocks said on 27 August 2011

My new partner has genital herpes. This is the first time I've come across an STI so have little knowledge or experience really. I know we have to be safe and use protection but I have other queries.

I presume I can catch herpes from oral sex. Would I just catch it on my lips or would it be present in my genitals also?

Several months ago a cold sore developed on my top lip. I had not had sex for several months although I had kissed people I'd met on a date. Could I also have herpes and would this only be present around my mouth?

Sorry if I sound a little niaive, like I said I have had little experience with STIs.

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stub said on 18 August 2011

Hi louise claire.I have just found out i hve herpes and wld love to know how to get rid of them.Also does anyone else know what i can do to help with the pain as it is very severe.

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juke1959 said on 03 August 2011

Hi Louise, Could you please pass the details onto myself as well pls. Thanks

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juke1959 said on 03 August 2011

Hi Louise, Could you please pass the details onto myself as well pls. Thanks

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Verity312 said on 20 July 2011

Hi Louise, I'd be really grateful if you could pass along the details of the herbs you took? Thank you!

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liz1234 said on 18 July 2011

Hi louise I would be totally grateful if you could pass on the details of what you took thank you

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ellagrace said on 09 July 2011

Hello Louise Claire, can you tell me please what herbs were recommended to you? thank you

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