Borderline personality disorder 

Introduction 

Talking therapies

In this video, learn about different talking therapies that can help people overcome a range of problems, from depression to stress.

Associated mental health conditions

Many people with borderline personality disorder also have another mental health or behavioural condition such as:

Personality disorders are mental health conditions that can cause a range of distressing symptoms and patterns of abnormal behaviour, such as:

  • overwhelming feelings of distress, anxiety, worthlessness or anger
  • difficulty managing such feelings without self-harming, for example by abusing drugs and alcohol or taking overdoses
  • difficulty maintaining stable and close relationships
  • sometimes, periods of loss of contact with reality
  • in rare cases, threats of harm to others

Personality disorders typically start in adolescence and persist into adulthood. The cause is often a combination of genetic reasons and a harmful childhood experience. Personality disorders range from mild to severe.

For more information, go to the A-Z overview of Personality disorders.

What is borderline personality disorder (BPD)?

It used to be thought that people with borderline personality disorder (BPD) were at the ‘border’ between:

  • neurosis, where a person is mentally distressed but can still tell the difference between their imagination and reality
  • psychosis, where a person is unable to tell the difference between their imagination and reality, and may experience delusions (an unshakable belief in something that is implausible, bizarre or obviously untrue) and hallucinations (seeing or hearing things that other people do not)

Now it is known that this is not an accurate description. BPD is best understood as a disorder of mood and interpersonal function (how a person interacts with others).

BPD is one of the most commonly seen personality disorders by GPs.

Although BPD is said to be more common in women, this is probably because fewer men seek treatment.

How does BPD develop?

The causes of BPD are unclear. However, as with many mental health conditions, BPD appears to be the result of a combination of genetic and environmental factors.

Traumatic events that occur during childhood are a major risk factor for developing BPD. An estimated 8 out of 10 people with BPD experience parental neglect or physical, sexual or emotional abuse during their childhood. For more information, see Borderline personality disorder - causes.

Outlook

BPD is a serious condition because many people with the condition will self-harm and attempt suicide. It is estimated that 60-70% of people with BPD will attempt suicide at some point in their life, and 10% will succeed.

However, the outlook for people with BPD is reasonably good as long as they are patient and willing to commit to long-term treatment.

Treatment for BPD usually involves a range of individual and group psychological therapies. Effective treatment usually lasts at least a year (see Borderline personality disorder – treatment for more information).

A study carried out in 2010 found that half of all people with BPD will completely recover and around 80% of people will remain mostly free of symptoms for at least four years.

Additional treatment is recommended for people whose symptoms return.

Last reviewed: 07/09/2010

Next review due: 07/09/2012

Comments are personal views. Any information they give has not been checked and may not be accurate.

Itsalottery said on 23 April 2012

Monster don't feel discouraged by your new GP. It's so sad but I've learned over the years that finding a GP that has even a remote understanding of BPD or helping someone with BPD is very rare. What he/she has told you is not only very unhelpful but it's also incorrect. BPD is real and widely recognised internationally. I think that GPs can do a lot of harm when they don't manage patients with any kind of mental illness effectively and sensitively. To be fair, I've even met with psychiatrists and psychologists who are pretty awful at dealing with BPD patients. Don't despair though, I've also found a couple great GPs and psychiatrist/psychologists that really know their stuff and how to help. I'd suggest asking to move to another GP who is better equipped and more knowledgable to help you with your mental health. The wrong GP can really add to your negative feelings so it's worth asking to change.

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the monster under your bed said on 19 April 2012

I've just been to a new GP and he asked me some questions about my medical conditions as he doesn't have my notes yet. I told him I've been diagnosed with depression and borderline personality disorder and he told me that borderline personality disorder is not a psychiatric diagnosis, and that it is just a category that people get put in when they don't fit any other diagnoses. Is he right? I'm really confused.

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andynoproblem said on 16 June 2011

I've had problems for most of my life with social and general anxiety, and also depression. Been reading a little about BPD recently but find the term Complex Post Traumatic Stress more helpful - there's a lot in a name, and for some reason I find CPTSD a less threatening term than BPD. It kind of reassures that the problems are 'not my fault', but are more of a product of environment than genes. There seems to be a run of this problem in my family going back four generations. While there may be a genetic suscepitibility to fear & anger, there also seems to be a chain of trauma being passed from each generation to the next. Lots of reading to do, but interested in the response of other sufferers. I found the film 'Good Will Hunting' particularly useful in unlocking the causes of my pain. I also find gardening helps with anger/fear/pain management. Cannabis is obviously illegal and mental health professionals are not allowed to recommend it. Take care of yourselves, and try not to be too hard on your loved ones and others - it's not their fault either.

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SKF1 said on 25 May 2011

Which 2010 study?

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My feeling said on 04 May 2011

Would people in the community, Mental health be more caring and stop letting me down, putting the matters with the police, i just want to get better and start a new happy life, so dont push me away,, because thats not the answer............

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